In male dream: emotions; sexual feelings; daughter. Example: I was away from home somewhere and was helping and encouraging a young Japanese girl, who was pregnant, to come back to England to have her baby here. I felt a lot of care for her’ (Dave L). Dave processed his dream and discovered a lot of sexual pleasure in connection with the girl. He had held himself back in this area most of his life and, as he was learning to allow his sexual feelings (not simply genital sex), he found a deepening in his caring also.
In female dream: oneself at that age, whether older or younger, feelings about sister or daughter, the aspect of oneself ponrayed by the girl, as in following example: ‘I was watching and at the same time I was a young girl sitting on a lawn’ (Honey J).
Another girl with your man: how you deal with your sense of being wanted; anxiety about not being attractive or lovable; suspicion, a side of yourself which relates you differently to your man. [1]
A stereotypical characteristic of girls.
A responsibility in your life.
Your inner child.
Your playfulness or need for fun.
A child or adult you know in real life, or the role that person plays in your life (friend, girlfriend, daughter, etc.).
Your vulnerability or need for support or empathy.
Consider also the context of the girl and your feelings about her.
See also: Child, Baby, Daughter, Person You Know, Person Unknown, Female, Woman, Romantic Partner [2]
If the girl is known to us we probably are aware of those qualities, but need to explore them as though we were approaching them from the girl’s point of view.
If she is unknown, we can acknowledge that a fresh approach would be useful. [3]
If you know her, and the other dream symbols support it, this is a portent of new opportunities; if she is a stranger, expect some surprising news.
For a woman, a strange girl can represent her youthful side; for a man, she could represent his ideal lover. [5]
See also: Goddess Persephone. [6]
For a man to dream of being a girl indicates a latent sexual problem and a visit to a psychologist might be helpful. [7]
2. Literal girl; Eph. 5:25; Ruth 4:12. [10]
amorous young, being an: wil marry the wrong person.
beautiful, exceptionally, an: increase in romantic fulfil ment.
crying, a: wil be embarrassed by a major financial problem; relax and play a little.
in a window: big disputes over unexpected expense.
single man: new conquests on the romantic front.
intelligent: big fortune and bright future prospects.
kind: immature but maturing female sexuality.
kissing several: encouraging prospects and many joys.
man dreaming of being a: wil play a female part on stage.
married person dreaming of kissing a: domestic troubles.
saving a, from danger: latent possibilities in your own nature wil be extremely loved.
surprising news from a, receiving: a long-delayed reply wil arrive.
talking to a: keep a tight rein on your actions.
ugly, an: your love attentions wil be refused.
unmarried, dreaming of beating a man: success in love.
young, dreaming of being in an asylum: wil meet an unanticipated obstacle.
of having a small beard: matrimony nearby in an uncongenial union.
of a man with a beard: wil marry the one you love by standing firm against al suitors.
receiving attentions from a man: is exposing his feelings about her with clear intent. [14]