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Destruction / Loss Of Control Dream Meaning

Dreams of your own death or the death of a loved one do not mean that you or someone you love are going to die; they do, however, require you to take stock of your health and the way you manage your life. Many dream experts believe that dreaming of your own death can signify a rebirth, the shedding of the old and a new beginning. In many cases, these dreams represent being involved in painful relationships or unhealthy habits or situations that have a destructive effect on you. Dreams of actually killing or murdering someone or being killed or murdered yourself in a dream are not very common, but if you do experience such dreams they may indicate deep and unresolved emotional and psychological conflicts that are interfering with your emotional and psychological health in waking life. There is a part of you that feels dead or out of control or there is a part of your life that you wish would disappear. Such dreams of murder or killing can also express violent and powerful rage. What is making you feel so angry in waking life?

Dreams that present you with undisguised imagery—the roof falling in on you, or your car stalling on a motorway—may be warning signals to pay greater attention to the care and maintenance of yourself and the things around you. Other common images in nightmares and bad dreams include: menacing strangers, clifftops, dark woods, alleys, forests, heights and depths, land or sea storms, earthquakes, tidal waves, terrorist attacks, outbreaks of disease, friends or family who suddenly become cruel, dangerous, old or ugly, guns, knives and other weapons threatening you, car or plane crashes and being lost. All these scary images leave you with a sense that your place in the world is uncertain or shifting. You are out of control in a big way and your sense of self is eroding. Dreams in which your whole world is rocked or changed are clear symbols of fear, anxiety and a crisis in confidence. Dreams in which you sink slowly but inevitably into quicksand or are swallowed by an angry lion usually represent feelings of being overwhelmed in waking life. Dreams in which you are drowning have a similar interpretation.

See also: STAGES OF LIFE. [1]

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Sources and Authors

  1. The Element Encyclopedia by Theresa Cheung [Back to dream]

What does DESTRUCTION / LOSS OF CONTROL mean in a dream?


The end of a phase in your life or the world, perhaps which you feel completely changes everything or changes the rules (such as losing your job, or a major...

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Depth Psychology: Dreaming about destruction reflects dashed hopes, withered emotions, or loss of convictions. Sometimes the dream refers to negative influences (from people , work, or home) that could destroy...

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A feeling or fear of: Destruction.Loss.Chaos or loss of control.Victimization or ill will.A sudden, unavoidable challenge in your life.A sudden and severe expression of negativity, such as anger or frustration.See...

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A feeling or fear of (physical, emotional, or mental) overwhelm, loss of control, victimization, or destruction.See Storm, Tornado, Flood, Earthquake, Apocalypse, Landslide, Avalanche, Problem, Chaos, Failure, Accident, Event, Fire, Firefighting

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1. Feeling a loss of control over situation or prob­lem (as in “everything is falling apart”).2. Feeling great loss, usually over an aspect of self or personality.3. Note body parts...

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Horrifying scenes of violence and destruction may indicate an overwhelming fear of the loss of one’s sense of power and control. Because of this fear, the dreamer may be in...

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1. Fears and anxieties—usually over loss of emotional con­trol, often over loss of control of a situation.2. Anger or feelings of futility that one has no control over destiny.3. Someone...

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1. Irresponsible behavior leads to financial difficulties.2. Control issues, fear of a loss of control.3. Need to lose control.

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If the cloud from a nuclear bomb appears in your dream this is a terrible symbol of utter destruction. However, its shape will be significant; if it appears in mushroom...

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Something that one can “get one’s teeth into” relates to a power or control issue. Losing the teeth may reflect a loss of power as well as a loss of...

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An impediment to your progress.An obstacle to meeting a goal.Control, especially of a flow or process (as a valve controls the flow of water by blocking it).Lack of control (as...

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Nightmares about weapons of mass destruction represent that you are venting out your fear of death, destruction, ego-obliteration and grand scale annihilation.See War and Venting Dreams.

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1. An emotionally turbulent period is ahead.2. A deep feel­ing of a loss of direction in life, a loss of control over one’s destiny.

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Dreams of your own death or the death of a loved one do not mean that you or someone you love are going to die; they do, however, require you...

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(Destruction, Disaster, Tornado) Seeing a tornado or a cloud of destruction in a dream is a sign of punishment for disobeying God’s command. Seeing a tornado in a dream also...

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Lack or loss of freedom (real, perceived, or imagined).Punishment.Discipline.A feeling or fear of an authority having too much control over you, or allowing them too much control.See Trapped, Restrained

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Psychological / emotional perspective: Awareness of addiction in dreams is an identification of the hold our own passions may have over us. We fear loss of control (that is, control...

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Trying to control or have power over a person or situation can represent: Compensating for a feeling of powerlessness, victimization, loss of personal power, or fear of losing control of...

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A feeling or fear of losing a sense of security or control.A sudden lack of foundation in your life, such as a situation in which “the rug is pulled out...

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If you dream of sliding or going down a slide, then this signifies that you are experiencing a loss of control in your life.If the context of this dream is...

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Things are changing in a dramatic way.The combustion of fire destroys everything in its path. However, remember that fire reduces what it burns to carbon, the building block of all...

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A feeling or fear of: Losing your footing or foundation (such as your beliefs, things you could always count on, or things you’ve tended to take for granted).Sudden, unexpected change.Loss,...

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(Changing course, Storm, Wind) A tornado in a dream means death and destruction.(Also see Cloud of destruction, Wind)

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A sudden, temporary shift in someone or something (a demeanor, situation, activity, etc.).Experiencing or fearing a temporary loss of control or an absence from your usual state of mind (such...

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Depending on the meaning, the movement in a spiral that characterizes the whirlwind represents the creation or destruction of the world. When its speed overtakes you, it means that the...

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Dreams of falling symbolize a feeling of loss of control, a lack of confidence, and that you are loosing your step as a result of not having your feet firmly...

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Material aspects: Dreaming of a dog lead symbolizes the connection between ourselves and our lesser nature.To have lost the dog lead would indicate a loss of control. Leading someone in...

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A trench symbolizes the need for protection. The dreamer feels set upon by people or events that they cannot control and is looking to defend their self. In any case,...

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1- Dreaming of a dog lead (also see Harness and Halter) would symbolise the connection between ourselves and our lesser nature.To have lost the dog lead would indicate a loss...

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1. Feelings of a loss of control, powerlessness in life.2. Lack of mobility.

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Dreams of a remote control represent your desire to control and have power over people or situations.If you dream of looking for a remote control, this represents your struggle to...

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Something leaking (such fluid out of a container) can represent a feeling or fear of: Loss, or loss of control.Something dwindling, disappearing, or being lost.Information or secrets being leaked.Depleting someone’s...

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1- To dream of being addicted indicates we have to recognise that there is a need and desire to acknowledge obsessive behaviour in ourselves or others. There is anxiety that...

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Any dream of breakage implies misfortune; to break a limb denotes sickness; furniture, loss of money; a looking glass, death; a broken window, danger of fire (Gypsy); the logic of...

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Fear of loss, or joy over separation.

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Loss of control, or fear of losing control.A fear of threat from external circumstances.Feeling or fearing a threat to your inner foundation (such as to a long-held belief or something...

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If the dream centers on some kind of radical change such as revolution, war, fighting or combat, this suggests some kind of conflict in your life. Images of destruction can...

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A perceived warning or sign of trouble.A real or imagined precursor to a problem, destruction, loss, or an ending.Something you consider an illusion, meaningless, fake, or of no consequence somewhere...

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As a destructive event that threatens life itself, a forest fire may represent the destruction of your life. It might criticize you for allowing anger to ruin your prospects for...

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Dream images connected to feelings of abandonment, fear and loss of control all have some form of conflict as their theme. For example, dreams about missing a bus, train or...

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1. Financial loss, loss of prestige in the offing.2. Fears of loss, usually of material things, money.3. A feeling of time wasted (stolen).

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1. Relationships will grow in quality and strength.2. The ability to learn new skills.3. A loss of control, seemingly inno­cent carelessness.4. Feelings of joy, a new beginning.

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1. Changing situations or circumstances, possibly beyond expectations.2. Difficulties over self-esteem issues, self-contempt.3. A strong fear or unhappiness over a loss of control over a situation.

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From a spiritual perspective hysterics signifies the loss of control that can occur when the link to innate wisdom is lost and there is an overemotional reaction.

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Dreams of feeling frozen signify that you are processing shock from a traumatic experience loss of connection to your spirit. You are venting out feeling of being out of control.

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1- We may be denying, or trying to control, a part of our own nature that we do not trust. We may also have feelings about other people which can...

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May suggest loss of control in a situation, low energy. Need to center through meditation to get back on target. May also be a “bad landing” coming back into the...

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A feeling or fear of overwhelming circumstances, helplessness, hopelessness, or loss of control, or of an important need being denied.The idea of “too much,” “going overboard” or “getting in over...

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Universal Landscape: Pervasive underbelly of Shadow.Dreaming Lens: Where were the rats in your dream? Was there just one or was there an infestation? Were you frightened of them? Were they...

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1. Potential loss of reputation through indiscretions (un­fastened buckle).2. Self-control in social situations.3. Serious commitments, maybe marriage in the offing (unfastening an­other’s buckle).

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1. Desire for privacy, likely because of secrets.2. Financial se­curity.3. Achievement of goals (to receive or win a purse).4. Loss of control of resources (to lose a purse).

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1. A warning to slow down.2. If in control of an accel­erator (whether it be on a car, boat or aircraft), then one is in control of his/her destiny.3. If...

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1. Personal mobility, often in life.2. Feelings of a loss of control over life (not driving, cannot drive or invisible driver).3. Stuck in old behaviors, mode of thinking (vehicle broken...

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1. Fear of being unable to handle a particular situation, either emotionally or intellectually.2. Being unable to discern what is right or wrong.3. Loss of control.4. Not knowing on what...

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It can be interpreted as a negative dream, since it involves the loss of precise control over actions and circumstances. However, it can also have a positive interpretation when it...

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For a woman to dream of a beautiful fat, white kitten, omens artful deception will be practised upon her, which will almost ensnare her to destruction, but her good sense...

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Psychological / emotional perspective: The imp can represent the uncontrolled negative part of ourselves, that part that instinctively creates chaos and takes great joy in doing so.It is perhaps an...

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Although you could interpret your dreams literally, a much more likely interpretation is a symbolic one. In this respect, dreams about nuclear war, the earth exploding, stars and planets falling...

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The meaning of ruins is literal: they represent destruction, the end of life. Many people experience this vision with a certain amount of melancholy. However, this destruction is mostly necessary...

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(1) The symbolism of spiral movement may depend partly on its speed and partly on how it feels - good or bad.See also Anticlockwise, Clockwise.Upward spiral movement may symbolize progress...

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Any dream in which the eyes play an important part is to do with observation and discrimination. Eyes are indicative of enlightenment and wisdom, protection and stability. They also have...

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A missing article, such as a set of keys, denotes a sense of being out of control.A missed plane, bus, train, appointment, or time commitment can symbolize a missed opportunity,...

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Something overflowing its container (such as liquid overflowing a glass or a river overflowing its banks) can represent: Abundance (desired or not).The idea of “too much.” A feeling or fear...

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To simply see (but not use) a vacuum in your dream, suggests feelings of emptiness. You may be experiencing a void in your life.If you use a vacuum in your...

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Cars represent our journey through life. Always check who’s in the drivers seat. Are you in control of your life or is someone else? Travelling by car shows you’re independent...

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If you dreamed of having a splinter in any part of your body, it is a warning to control your temper; if your dream featured a splinter in someone else,...

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A leash is about connectivity and control. Whoever holds the leash is in charge.If you are holding a leash in a dream, then you are exploring issues of control. Consider...

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Road rage appearing in dreams is an aspect of suppressed anger. It signifies a complete loss of control, both of our emotions and of common sense. It will depend on...

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Some dreams are interpreted to mean the opposite when the elements are related. This tradition comes from examples such as crying when one is extremely happy; or when laughing in...

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Anything that relates to a driving experience is symbolic of how you are moving through your life.The speedometer is your mechanism for managing the speed with which you are moving...

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Someone trying to take power or control over you can represent: A real-life person or situation you feel is crossing your boundaries, manipulating or overpowering you, or taking more time...

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A feeling or fear of overwhelm, threat, victimization, loss of control, chaos, or unpredictability.The idea of timing, such as the need to make a good decision, or the need to...

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(Icy rain) In a dream, hail means calamity, sufferings, hunger, loss of property, poverty, mass persecution, or torture. In nature, this element cools the earth and eliminates many harmful insects,...

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Complete destruction, Amos 2:1

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Potential destruction, Rev. 8:10 NLT

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Destruction, judgment, Ps. 78:47

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Destruction, judgment, Rev. 8:8

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If you dream of having the power to control water, this symbolizes your spiritual and intellectual growth. You are not using your full potential - you have considerable energy and...

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