asking for: a sizable profit and romantic interlude turn permanent.
being pitied: feel humiliation at the attractive opportunities offered to you.
by friends: overeagerness leads to accepting risky ventures.
having, on friends: have an unusual level of confidence and decisiveness; use it.
poor people: affairs are in confusion, deal with your own poverty.
relatives: expect disappointment when you share your home with in-laws.
sick people: are giving them the added burden of your negative attitude. [4]