If you yourself are the waiter or waitress: you are making sacrifices for someone, and in the process you will lose your independence.
Depth Psychology: The waiter or waitress shows your willingness to serve, your humility, or concern for others.
If you are being served: you can expect to get help soon. Dreaming about waiters and waitresses often is a sign that you do too much for others! [1]
If we are in the role of waiter, we arc aware of our ability to care for other people.
If we are being waited on. we perhaps need to be nurtured and made to feel special.
2- When such a person appears in a dream, there may be a play on words. Part of us needs to be conscious that for complete fulfilment in any task or responsibility we need to wait.
3- Spiritually we must learn two lessons - service and patience. This must be learnt before we can really progress. [2]
If you dream of being served by a waiter/waitress, you will be involved in many social gatherings involving friends or loved ones. [3]
If we dream about being in the customer role, maybe we desire to be waited on. [4]
If mad at waiter or waitress, ask what part of self you are rejecting, not accepting.
If service is slow, you are not allowing yourself the nurturing and sustenance you need. [6]